I have been sober for almost 3 years. Best decision I have ever made. my husband is also in long term recovery. he is in a 12 step program. I didn’t get sober that way, but I go to meetings now, mostly to hang out with my man. Sobriety has taught me a lot about myself. I’m so happy to be here. We do not have any kids. I do have a wonderful step daughter, she is awesome. I am so happy to be here, and sober today!! My husband and I live in the Bay Area of California, right outside of San Francisco.